There has always been an argument about various religions and multiple wives. One of the stagnating challenges is that if we read the bible starting with the Old testament God made it clear that man should only marry one wife within a monogamous relationship.
1: Let's start with Adam and Eve Old Testament:
“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
— Genesis 2:24 KJV
Jesus later repeats this same teaching in the New Testament:
“For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh.”
— Matthew 19:5 KJV
The command in Deuteronomy 17:17 was part of God’s instructions specifically for kings of Israel. God knew that unchecked power, wealth, and relationships could slowly corrupt a ruler’s heart. “Neither shall he multiply wives to himself, that his heart turn not away…”
This passage from 1 Kings 11:1–8 is one of the most sobering moments in the life of Solomon because it shows how gradual compromise can affect even the wisest person.
Now King Solomon loved many foreign women, along with the daughter of Pharaoh: Moabite, Ammonite, Edomite, Sidonian, and Hittite women, from the nations concerning which the Lord had said to the people of Israel, “You shall not enter into marriage with them, neither shall they with you, for surely they will turn away your heart after their gods.” Solomon clung to these in love. He had 700 wives, who were princesses, and 300 concubines. And his wives turned away his heart. For when Solomon was old his wives turned away his heart after other gods, and his heart was not wholly true to the Lord his God, as was the heart of David his father. For Solomon went after Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians, and after Milcom the abomination of the Ammonites. ...
This warning was prophetic because it revealed what would eventually happen to several leaders in Scripture.
The text is very intentional in showing that Solomon did not simply make a minor mistake. The writer connects Solomon’s actions directly back to God’s earlier warnings in Deuteronomy.
Why This Warning Was So Serious
In the ancient world, kings often married:
- for political alliances,
- military protection,
- wealth,
- influence,
- and status.
But God wanted Israel’s kings to be different from pagan nations. Israel’s king was supposed to:
- trust God,
- lead spiritually,
- uphold righteousness,
- and remain separate from idolatry.
The danger was not simply having many wives itself. The deeper danger was:
- divided loyalty,
- spiritual compromise,
- and foreign influence bringing idol worship into Israel.
God understood that the heart can be slowly pulled away through compromise long before outward destruction appears.
Solomon, The Clearest Example
Solomon directly violated this command.
The Bible says: “And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines: and his wives turned away his heart.”
— 1 Kings 11:3
Then:
“For when Solomon was old, his wives turned away his heart after other gods…”
— 1 Kings 11:4
This is important because Solomon was:
- the wisest king,
- builder of the Temple,
- blessed with extraordinary favor,
- and personally visited by God.
Yet wisdom did not protect him from ongoing compromise.
His foreign wives introduced:
- idol worship,
- pagan altars,
- false gods such as Chemosh and Molech,
- and spiritual corruption into the nation.
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