Is Cheating “A Man’s Nature” or an Iniquity Trait?

Is Cheating “A Man’s Nature” or an Iniquity Trait?

In recent cultural discussions, some have argued that because men were historically hunters, providers, or pursuers, it is somehow natural or inevitable for men to desire multiple women or engage in cheating. This argument attempts to frame unfaithfulness as something biologically unavoidable or simply part of masculine nature. However, the Bible does not support the idea that a man “has to cheat” because of his nature. Scripture consistently teaches that human beings are responsible for their choices and are called to practice self-control, faithfulness, discipline, and obedience to God.

Jesus and Marriage New Testament

Jesus and Marriage New Testament

In Gospel of Matthew chapter 19, Jesus was asked about marriage and divorce. He responded by pointing back to God’s original design from Genesis.

Here is the key passage:

“And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,

And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?

Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.”
— Matthew 19:4–6 KJV

God’s Original Design vs. Human Compromise: Why Did Moses Regulate Multiple Wives? Old Testament

God’s Original Design vs. Human Compromise: Why Did Moses Regulate Multiple Wives? Old Testament

One of the most important things to understand when studying the Bible is the difference between: